I am very grateful to my colleague from the UK Paul McGee for this post.
Positive thinking stinks!
A harsh statement to make, but one I genuinely believe is true, if people delude themselves into believing that positive thinking alone is all that's required to meet life's challenges. It's not a bad starting point, but if it doesn't lead to you taking action then I believe we're actually deceiving ourselves. Let's be clear, it's not the thought that counts - it's the action taken that makes the difference.
In my experience there are several reasons why people don't take action. Here are three of them. Which can you relate to?
Some people have convinced themselves that doing something uncomfortable must be avoided at all costs. Here's the deal: Comfort never produced greatness. It's when we move out of our comfort zone that real growth and learning can take place.
This happens when we appear to be busy but actually confuse activity with effectiveness. It's like re-arranging the deckchairs on the Titanic. Frankly I'm not impressed by people who wear their busyness like a badge of honour. But I am impressed by the people who get the right things done.
Fear of failure
My book proposal for SUMO (Shut Up, Move On) was rejected by 12 publishers. It's now sold over 50,000 copies in the UK alone (and no they weren't all bought by my Mum). I think I'd rather look back on life and sigh "Oh well" if things didn't go as well as planned than look back with regret and ask "What if?" It's really difficult to know the joy of success if you're not willing to encounter the pain of failure. And trust me, the pain doesn't last - but the lessons do.
So with one month of 2012 already consigned to history let's make sure that we're not just relying on positive thinking to achieve our goals, but positive action. Perhaps it's time to Shut Up the excuses and Move On to the action. Agree?
Paul McGee is The SUMO Guy.
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